(socially appropriate, non-crass techniques to ask chicks to fall asleep with you)
updated: March 17 2019 – haha – “Netflix and Chill” was originally our ‘idea’, nevertheless now it is conventional!
If you should be home about this Saturday evening, it better be along with your fuckbuddy half-naked close to you whilst you both read Good Looking Loser. We invested so many nights at home in my 20’s saturday. We regret it too.
If you can not keep in touch with girls through the night, simply head out to see whenever you can make eye contact (+ smile) with girls or go watch other dudes communicate with random girls have a look at our program. Even although you do not say a term the whole time – it really is better for your “game” than reading my disgraceful creepy weblog.
Used to do a video (see below) and wasn’t likely to execute a post on this ‘common feeling’ subject but I made the decision it had been a good proven fact that everyone see this.
Guys that “research” sex/dating on the online frequently experience ‘information overload’ and literally freeze up throughout their interactions or do not know how to find down where in actuality the girls stands.
They likewise have used a lot of “game” disinformation that Good searching Loser is personally responsible for reversing.
I am sure you have seen those “Asking 100 Girls For Intercourse” or “Will You have intercourse if they will sleep with him with me?” viral YouTube videos where a guy asks 100 girls. Usually he asks issue while the extremely thing that is first says.
As an example –
(never bother watching these in complete)
In some instances girls start to see the camera, in some instances perhaps not. It doesn’t actually matter.
The outcome are identical in every the videos –
>98% associated with girls state “No.”
Here you will find the two methods –
Table of Contents
0:00 The YouTube “social experiments” – just what do they mean?
1:45 Verbal vs. physical screening (physical will CONSTANTLY get you further, faster)
4:15 “could you want to get together for a drink ?” “Lets grab a drink tonight.”
(try not to recommend it’s a date or coffee)
5:45 Logistical concerns – where guys that nail 50+ girls via cool approach live.
7:25 “Do you really want to come over and watch a movie ?” “You should drop by and then we’ll view a film .”
8:20 “Normal” dudes that Get Laid a great deal use both of these ALL TIME.
9:45 Stupid egghead rebuttal: “seeking rapport/asking questions” is wrong.
11:20 A note on simply how much “game” actually matters.
12:00 which will be better? Verbal or physical stuff?
12:45 ways to get faster with all the physical material.
15:00 Use both: ask woman to generally meet for a glass or two, then her to come over for a movie/drink.
Tonight#1 Offer to Meet Up for a Drink
(“You want to grab a drink? Lets do this.”)
This proposition, among guys that get a complete large amount of pussy, is the single most used line into the reputation for the world.
Every woman within the world (unless you REALLY seem like boyfriend material) understands that is an invite for future intercourse.
It’s the universal, polite, socially acceptable invite for sex.
As a potential boyfriend and withholds her pussy until you are emotionally invested so you don’t think she’s a slut if you are looking to Get Laid, this is a much better alternative than asking a girl to “dinner” so she starts looking at you.
Perhaps the minority of apprehensive girls that think “he’s probably just trying to get me personally drunk”, will ironically totally enable you to do this – if they are sexually available and DTF.
Plenty of guys are scared to make use of this idea since it’s “overused” or “too normal”.
That’s absurd, the need to be creative/witty is merely insecurity and social inexperience.
(i have been here, trust in me)
Others are scared that girls will think “this person desires to rape me”.
Emotionally healthy girls WILL NOT BELIEVE THAT.
Simply trust me on this one too.
A DTF girl will not turn down a courteous invite to have a beverage to you – if she likes you.
We totally encourage one to utilize this proposition EACH TIME before taking a woman’s number.
# 2 Offer to look at a Movie/Hangout (at your place)
(“the trend is to visit tonight therefore we’ll grab/watch a movie and spend time?”)
If “grabbing a drink” may be the number 1 proposition of all-time, “watch a movie/hangout” is #1b.
It may be no. 1 really, this is exactly what everybody else who Gets Laid in university uses if they aren’t at events.
(but it is often the ‘after party’ pretense)
Just like the proposition that is prior girls understand “watch a film” become an invite for sex (or at the very least some kind of messing around).
The”watch a movie/hangout” proposition is socially acceptable, polite and not too forward like”getting a drink.
Possibly it’s obvious you are proposing to “watch a movie”, “pick up a movie” (go out) and never “see a film” or “go to a film” (date).
Make that clear.
(it usually is when you state “hangout”)
The invite is really a socially acceptable reason for the lady to come over and fool around – whenever you want.
If you’re “getting a glass or two” with a lady (or end up on a far more traditional date) you should use this pretense to have the girl to come over later.
All girls know very well what this means.
Girls know this and certainly will come over looking way hotter than when they had been simply planning to view a movie.
A “movie/hangout” could be the universal way that is socially acceptable getting a lady to come over, but these options are appropriate too –
Come over and then we’ll chill.
Come over and now we’ll earn some food and have some drinks.
Come over so we’ll just chill into the hot spa.
Come over and then we’ll smoke weed.
Come over and then we’ll do a little blow.
These pretenses are not necessarily necessary she is your fuckbuddy (just tell/ask her to come over) – but can be useful after you have fucked the girl and.
You do not need some other pretenses than those 2.
How/Why Does This “Work”!?
Due to the fact woman likes both you and desires to have intercourse to you.
She actually is often just looking forward to the opportunity to achieve this.
Ideally, the lady should KNOW ALREADY what you’re looking (intercourse, not a girlfriend) for when she is met by you, however these propositions will leave without doubt.
Because of this that I don’t have confidence in garbage like “text game” or “working on” girls once you meet them. Even yet in the small circumstances where it might appear to operate, it is hardly efficient and odds are – your ex ALREADY liked you.
Next time you wish to communicate (verbally) with her and want to know where she stands – just suggest a “drink” or “movie/hangout” that you want to sleep.
You will get your solution.
If you aren’t comfortable being physical with girls although I encourage, physical screening (a little goes a long way, especially during the day), this type of “verbal screening” is a nice way to get to the point.
(still – try to get confident with it, spoken screening will never be just like real assessment + small talk)
Once per week, someone asks ways to get a woman to come over or wonders the way in which to step a”hang up out” in the place of a romantic date.
If this was good sense to you personally (consequently you ought to have currently have experience making use of these pretenses at least 20-30 times) – then that is great news.
Odds are – you’ve got recently been xnxx german Laid that is getting and this tied up some loose ends.
You now have the CORRECT answer to if it wasn’t common sense –
What do i really do to meet (rather than date) a woman?
This will be as simple you- she will jump at the chance to get a drink/movie and chill with you as it gets and when a girl likes.